The Struggles and Rewards of Being a Non-Traditional StudentCrystal Trotter | Student, Eastern Illinois University
The challenges of being a non-traditional student are sometimes overwhelming. I am a Political Science major at Eastern Illinois University (EIU). I have three children: Austin (13), Karleigh (10) and Noah (8). I am involved in a number of community associations, I volunteer and I work in the Bachelors of General Studies (BGS) department and the student government at EIU. Even with all that’s going on in my life, my focus lies on caring for my children and earning my degree. However, key to keeping all the balls in the air is an aptitude for time management.
Being a parent is a full-time job. The day begins at 5 a.m. and bedtime is around midnight — on a good night. On a good day, I may be in the car for a total of three hours. Wednesday is the exception, where I am in the car for four hours at least, as I have a special needs daughter who has at least one doctor’s appointment a week. My car trips include Scouts for all of the kids, dance classes for my daughter, school parties and award ceremonies. Both of my sons play football and one plays basketball. I am also the room parent for my daughter’s fourth grade class, which means I’m responsible for arranging all of their holiday parties. I am also a member of the Lions Club and attend their functions and meetings. I also have five dogs at home, one of whom is a foster from Rescue Me Clifford. My family works with disadvantaged animals to help them find permanent homes. I work on campus two days a week in the BGS office. I am also involved in Eastern’s Student Government. I hold a seat on the Student Supreme Court. We not only hear cases, but we’re also the election committee for the other branches of Student Government. This, of course, requires meetings in addition to school and home life, not to mention an extra 45-minute one-way commute. With all of this going on, I still find time in my too-short day to go to school and work.
I drop the kids off at school and start my own commute to school. I take classes on campus on Tuesdays and Thursdays and also have one online class. I can only take classes that run between 9 a.m. and 2 p.m.. This tends to be my biggest struggle with school. It isn’t easy to get the classes I need for my specific major within this time range. Luckily, online classes are an option that helps to reduce this burden. However, with a specific major and a limited number of electives, there are only so many courses I can take online. I’m currently taking the last one that is offered, so far, this semester. On top of everything else, there is studying. I take my books and notes everywhere to study. I may only have a few minutes at a time, but I get it done.
Time management and planning are what allow me to accomplish these tasks. A non-traditional student must be focused and responsible. There are many days when I want to throw my hands up in the air and give up on the degree. However, I keep pushing ahead and the rewards keep showing. I manage the rigorous schedule of being a full-time mom and a full-time student, and it’s paying off. All of the stress, hard work and sleepless nights are well worth the accomplishments I’ve achieved.
Author Perspective: Student